For the last 11 years, I have worked out of my home. I’ve met amazing people from all over the world but most of them I have never met in person and while I talk on the phone most days, I still feel very isolated and alone at times. My husband works at home as well so we are together 24/7 basically and bless his heart, he has been a girlfriend to me more times than he should.
I decided it was time to do something about this and stop feeling so recluse. I have used the Meetup.com website in the past and had major success with it but I had put it on the back burner and hadn’t really visited it in quite some time. For those who may not know what Meetup.com is, here is a very quick and dirty description. It is a website where you can go to find groups of people that meet in your area. You can find a group based on your topic of interest. For example if you love wine, you can find a vino group that meets.
When I first moved back to Florida, I used Meetup.com to start to find some friends. It was great and totally helped me to make some long term friendships. About a week ago, I was notified via Meetup that there was a new group for women forming so I joined. As I was looking at the members of the group, I came across one person who wrote the following description of herself:
“Hi everyone! I am a 40-something work-at-home Graphic Designer… so I don’t get to meet people. I love my husband but I need to meet some “girl friends” to do fun things with or even just relax and chat.”
It was as if I had written this! I knew instantly I needed to meet this person so I posted on her profile and she wrote me back. A few emails back and forth and this past Saturday we met for lunch and talked for 2 1/2 hours! It was so great to connect with someone in person. I have a new found friend!
If you work from home, what do you do to keep from feeling isolated? Have you ever tried a meet up group? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Be sure to leave a comment below.